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anonymous
writes:Theres a guy iv liked for a while but clearly isnt interested thus a waste of time being hung up over... howeverI go cold when ever another guy gets close to me and then i dont even want to see them!for example a really nice decent guy asked me out and 3 days later i was so unsettled by the thought of being in commitment that i dumped him!Is it possible to get into a relationship with someone why you are still hung up over someone else? does it help you change your feelings? i cant get over this other boy whos not interested and im going cold on decent guys but i cant help it!!!thankyou. Reply to this Question
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Been there, done that. Time and the right guy will merge and all will be well. Don't force yourself to be with someone you do not want to be with or to be with someone great when you just aren't ready to be with someone.
I do think that being with someone does help you get over someone else but I've never been the type who can do that because I hate hurting people more than I hate being hurt. I tend to shy away from casual dating or being with someone who cares for me more than I care for them.
Eventually you will click with someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): yes it is possible to get in a relationship while still hung up on someone else. i did so myself once, but i wish i hadn't. give yourself time to get over this bloke and then you'll be cool with other guys.
just give yourself time, you're young, and not in any rush?
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