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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Dearcupid!
What that mean for you "Let us take it slow and see what happen. I do not want to mislead you!"
Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Hi Dearcupid!
What that mean for you "Let us take it slow and see what happen. I do not want to mislead you!"
Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): It sounds a little fast, three days from the first date. If he is that anxious, he might only want one thing and leave. I would check him out a little more than that. If he is in love with you, he can wait a while.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 if your happy and you like him and he likes you back and you respect eachother i think the third dates fine personally =] x
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (22 March 2008):
 On average women tend to have sex on the third date but it just depoends if you feel ready and comfortable its up to you but please dont be pressured into it
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (22 March 2008):
 theres nothing wrong with getting the nasty on, on the first date.
seriously there ain't any rules. if it feels right for you. go for it.
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (22 March 2008):
There is only one time that is the right time for you two to get it together so to say and that is when the two of you feel it is right - wreather that is after ten years together or instantaneously or anything in between.
There is not a right time for others to judge, there is a right time for you and a right time for your partner.
Go by this and ignore anything else as other advice can only be the opinion of others and will probably feel wrong for you.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 It depends, were you friends for a long time? How long has the sexual tension been building up.
Bit odd you say third day from first date? So only one date and then dateless sex? That sounds a bit too easy.
You got to hook him properly before you have a chance of reeling him in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Its ok if your both happy with it me and my fella made love on our 3rd date and he is still here infact he hasnt gone anywere! And my fella has always respected me sweetheart I hope this works out for you and you find happiness in this new relationship TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): I would be careful and let him wait, then you will know whether he genuinely likes you. If he is prepared to wait then you know he wants a relationship. If you sleep with him too soon and he cools off straight away, then you will feel hurt and used. Take things slowly.
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