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*illyGirl23
writes:Hi, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 years but the problem is his ex, he spends more time talking to her than what he does to me. She came over one nite and the three of us sat there in my lounge, then they started talking about what it was like when they were together and stuff they used to do, to me you don't do that at all not when you in a relationship and when that person is sat there, the thing is he makes me feel as if I'm only there to warm the bed for him at night and clean, he never tells me he loves me he doesn't even show it What am Ii to do, I'm confused ??please
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reader, SillyGirl23 +, writes (22 March 2008):
SillyGirl23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys
im sat here today reading your coments and yeah i am stupid for sticking up with it well ive made my mind up and there is no more us only me.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Dump this loser!!!! How incredibly insensitive to entertain his ex in your house. I would have kicked this jerk into touch years ago. Next time he leave dirty linen around the house throw it at his ugly face and tell him to do it himself.
You are far too soft and should have never let this happen in the first place.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (22 March 2008):
 What an idiot. I'd say kick him out.Tell him if he hasnt got time for you and always prances around with this ex of his then tell him to just move in with her.You have to give him a bit of a wake up call if you want him to realise how much its hurting you. If he still loves his ex over this long period of 4 yearsthen theres no doubt he still loves her. Just sit him down nxt time your alone and talk to him about it. Also, you could stop cleanin for him, leave his dirty clothes on the floor, move into another room to sleep in. Youll eventually get him to realise smthing is wrong and hell talk to you about it. If he doesnt and still hangs out with his ex, then just kick him out.goodluck
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