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writes: Is it okay for me to fall in love with my cousin?Im a girl and i've been having nice thoughts about him. Im sure he doesn't feel the same way but i cant help it..please help me I never told him yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): nope. Not right. Plenty of guys out there that you can date. Your own blood? You do not want to go there. Take my advice. Find someone else, anyone else(bar another cousin or relative). Also you feel infatuation, not love. Big difference.
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reader, irishangel +, writes (1 November 2009):
My grandparents were cousin's, they were together for over 30 years and lived a long happy life together having 8 children in total, so sometimes it can work out.
However, you have to take into consideration that if something were to happen your family may frown upon it and it could cause arguments.
Before you consider telling him your feelings you should probably find out if he reciprocates your feelings as he might find it strange to have romantic feelings towards someone you are related to. So look out for signs to see if he has feelings towards you.
Best of luck!
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