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writes:my boyfriend walked out on me and my son 3 month ago for what i dont know i have asked him to come back but no he had me waiting for 10 weeks for him to say it was over do you think he will ever come back a love him very much and he knows i do Reply to this Question
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reader, BlueBag +, writes (16 November 2009):
 What an idiot. He walked out on you and his son and didn't contact you for 10 weeks? He doesn't deserve either of you.
Right now you need to pick yourself up and concentrate on being the best mum you can be for your son. You can't afford to fall apart, he needs stability in his life because his dad clearly hasn't shown this.
Your boyfriend will hopefully realise that he is missing out on his son's life and will come back. But make sure this is on your terms. Don't accept him back as your boyfriend as you don't deserve to be treated as a doormat.
Keep your chin up and think positively for your child. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): My husband also left me and my 3yrs old child 3 months ago.it has been the hardest thing I ever had to go though. During las 2 months I contacted him so many times and begged him to come back but he always said that out relationship was not good and does not know what will happend in the future but at the moment we were not together. Although really unhappy i managed to go though the months and now i started to feel slightly more positive and less scared of being on my own. He must have noticed it because the other day he start telling me about getting couple counselling together with hope we could go back together. I told him to wait!! feels like nothing will be different if we come back right now. also need to work out if wanted him back. Be strong, look after yourself and do not look back might not be anything left
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