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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Is making out on a first date a no no? How would I bring a chick home after the first date? Ask her do you want to see my room? Once you talk to her for a bit.....just go for the move? Or ask her do you want to cuddle? Then kiss her? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, smitheroon +, writes (1 April 2010):
Ok... I can only assume that when you say the word "chick" that we're not referring to you talking about girls you want to date in the long term.
If you're just looking to hook up and not make some kind of soul connection, then by all means make out on the first date and cuddle on the couch and get it on.... IF she's receptive.
But women aren't stupid - we know when you guys are just looking to hook up. It's going to give the message that you're not interested in a relationship, you sleep around, and you have low standards. So... just consider that.
If you're not cool with that interpretation, then save the making out and sex for a second or third date AT LEAST.
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