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writes:Hi, my situation is a little complicated.I asked another similar question a few days ago but I couldn't find it, so I'm going to ask again and add some details I wanted.To make the long story short, I have a huge crush on a hair stylist who works in the salon I've been going to lately. He is a guy (and not gay) and we talk a lot whenever I go there and we connect very well. I've learned quite a lot of things about him, including his name (of course), where he lives, his hobbies, where he hangs out, things he likes to do etc, and he's learned quite as much about me. He also said some stuff that were a little flirty, even though I'm not completely sure if he's interested in me.I know the whole hairdresser-client thing is a bit weird, but I really like this guy and I don't want the fact that I met him through his job to stop me for making a move towards him. I feel more comfortable with him than I have felt with most people, and the instant I saw him I felt that "click". However, I am not sure how I can make a move and try flirting with him, and I still don't know if he has a girlfriend. So, if you could please help, what are some good ways to get to know him more and how could I start showing that I'm interested in him? And most of all, how could I find out whether he has a girlfriend or not? I mean, I can't just go up to him and ask "Hey, do you have a girlfriend?" I find it way too awkward and couldn't do that. I want to find out in a more discrit way. Also, I would like to ask for his number sometime, but that also feels very difficult, since I mostly see him when he's working and everything.Thank you, please try and help!So, if you could please help,
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reader, rcn  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Why can't you just ask him? If not, say something like, "Do you cut your girlfriend's hair, or send her somewhere else?" Hairstyle/client rules, I'm sure are different than if he were to be a person of authority, or in a position, such as teacher/student. Ask him to meet for a cup of coffee or something. Whatever is comfortable for you, without looking to nuts over him. You enjoy talking to him, you want to continue the conversation, and pick a place to meet.
I hope this helps. Take care .
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