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writes:well... i was 15 at the time,and was staying over at my cousin's house, me and my cousin (female) would always play fighting and that.. except this time it got out of hand and we ended up sleeping together... she was 14 at the time... since then every time we meet up we sleep to gether, is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): no it's not normal but if u both feel the same way and feel that u two have a conection and do u like her for who she is and does she like. u sit her down and what ever u do make sure u two talk about whats doing on and u should do next it's up to u
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): well no and it's not normal but are u actracted to her cos if u only did it because u thought she looked good tonight then thats stupid but if u like her for who she is and she likes you for who u r then something. anyway u r not alone in this i have a thing for my cousin but me and him never did it. try and talk and see if both feel the same way and u take it from there
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Pazush, what's this got to do with who he finds attractive, male/female?
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reader, Pazush  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Hi,
few more info is needed for providing a well based answer.
did her or you date other people during this time?
are you still sleep together?
do you find women attractive? and men? does she?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): I can't call it normal as it's a rare thing for someone to do (depending on your religion). As strange and quite wrong as it seems as you're family and share the same nan! It's actually legal. HAVING SEX AT 14, however, is not.
Does your mother know about this? I'm sure she'll have a different opinion on the matter. I'd make sure she doesn't find out if I was you. Of course however, if you marry her.
If one of you don't feel comfortable with this then you should stop.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 I don't think I would call it normal. But it's not unheard off.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Well normal yes and no.. Its normal for a guy and a girl to be sexualy attracted no each other evin if its your cousin. Its just not normal when you think about it morally. I don't know if your family would accept it or not. And this must count as incest no?
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