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writes:I can't get this guy out of my mind.... is it normal to have a crush at my age?We are both getting divorced, his is almost finalised, mine is just beginning.Am I just focusing on him, to take my mind off the real everyday nitty-gritty matters?
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reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
 I think you are hon, it will take time :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): Be very very careful. Often when people get older, and i am in that age bracket myself a sort of desperation can take over and we take anything and everything that is going. Why dont you spend a bit more time on your own and get to know yourself. i wouldnt advise anyone to jump into something else so soon, i often ends in tears. Sorry to put a bit of a downer on it, but i know from experience, jump the fence, and land in a bigger pile of poo!!! Be aware and alert and dont let your head and your heart get mixed messages.
take care
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (23 November 2007):
 Hi - I am same age as you and also split. All I would say is watch your heart very carefully. There is a big danger of falling for the first one you meet. I can't explain why this happens - but I know so many where the same thing happened - including myself.
Good luck
Richard
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 Nope, it is normal. Think about about your feelings as a bridge to get through to the other side. If it works out with the new guy, great. If it doesn't you will always know that the feelings you've had for him are what helped you get through the rough times of the divorce. Good luck. You have a tough road to hoe. Just remember to take some time for yourself before you get too committed in a new relationship. It also is important that you understand what didn't work in the marriage and why.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): I think it is alright to have a crush on anybody, there is nothing happen wit that..bcoz wat ur doing is just love
him...right? oh, yes..but if he's not in to u..u better stay away from him, b4 u get into trouble.
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