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writes: Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with the idea of my bf's simen to be inside me? Because I'm on the pill now, my bf and I started to have sex without a condom on. I'm not concern about my bf having STD. However, I'll be honest and admit I'm not ready to get pregnant (still want to have a free life).Everytime I finish making love to my bf, I'll rush to the bathroom and try to force out any simen (go pee as well to prevent urninary infection). Is this something normal? I don't know if it's the fear of getting pregnant or if it's the idea of simen in me that concerns me. I hope my bf doesn't feel offended that I rush to the bathroom everytime we get intimate.
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reader, Toria +, writes (29 September 2006):
 It's normal to worry about the affect your actions will have on the other person, but like you said when condoms were being used he did the same so surely he won't see anything wrong in you doing so :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): its normal 2feel uncomfortable but dont ger obsesed with it goin wee will not prevent infections i think thats being a bit to much paranoid im sure your boyfren understand you need 2clean up after every 1 has to why not explain to him how you feel and if its that bad ask him to pull wawy before he releases tell your ready to deal with it if he cares he will understand even if hes not to pleased about it best wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for everyone's comment. After reading all your responses, I think I rush to the washroom just so I can clean myself then spend more time cuddling with my bf. After thinking about it, I don't think my bf will be offended. Back when he was using condom, he would go to the washroom to clean himself up too. Then we will spend time cuddle up. Alright, I guess I have nothing to be scare of. Paranoia!
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
Alot of women find this uncomfortable to leave seman inside them after sex, some because of fear of pregnancy and some just because they don't find it a nice feeling and the longer it is left the more uncomfortable it can feel.
If you are worried that your boyfriend might find this offence I would try to lay on a towel so the seman will come out on that until you feel comfortable that you have spent the time with your boyfriend afterwards to go to the bathroom, It is something you will get use to but if you don't then just explain to your boyfriend that you like to clean up after sex so that you can spend as much time with him afterwards without having to get up again.
I hope this helps :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): Well you probably feel uncomfortable with it. A lot of us women do, because it feels all cold,clammy and drippy after the act. Rather than rushing off to the loo and spoiling the moment, have a lot of tissues on hand. Have a good cuddle and then go clean yourself up properly.
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