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30-35,
anonymous
writes:20. Never interested in sex never feel like it dont care about it. Is this normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Normal... sexual desire isn't the same for everyone, at one end you have nymphomaniacs who have sex with everyone and the other you have asexual people who never have sexual desire, the rest of us are some where in the middle.You are young (20) and therefore it's not something you should actually be that worried about. Young people develop differently, some women hit puberty at 10 and start going breasts, whilst other women don't start developing until they are in their 20's.Maybe you are asexual, maybe you just haven't met the right person to turn you on. Wait a couple of years, maybe until 23/24 and if nothing has changed then go and see your doctor.If you have no sexual desire when your older it's best to see a doctor to make sure their are no physical or psychological issues involved.Don't worry, your very young, enjoy yourself right now without worrying about sex and if in a couple of years you start thinking about children then go and see your doctor. You can go see your doctor anyway if you need reassurance and they will just repeat what we have said.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 November 2011):
 No. Well, it happens to some people, it's called being asexual. But it is outside of the norm. Normally people have a healthy curiosity and interest in sex.
Your feelings around sex might change in time though.
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male
reader, C. Grant  +, writes (11 November 2011):
 It's unusual but hardly unheard of. You'd get more helpful input if you ruled out some other things. Are you healthy? Have you had experiences in your past that might put you off sex, such as abuse? Did your upbringing give you experiences that might bias you, such as parents who had a poor relationship?
If you had a wonderful childhood with happily married parents, that would lead to one stream of advice.
If you've had a history of unhappiness, that would lead to rather a different stream of advice.
Give us a bit to work on and we might be better able to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2011): Yes it is normal, time will come, don't worry you wiil be happy for what you have been
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