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Is it normal for your feelings for your significant other to fluctuate?

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Question - (4 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2007)
A female , *utterflykys writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and I am wondering is it normal for your feelings for your significant other to fluctuate? One day I feel madly in love with him and cannot wait for him to come home from work, while other days he gets on my nerves and I could careless if I ever saw him again. Maybe its just my being moody, but I my feelings for him are never constant, is there something wrong with our relationship I'm not fessing up to?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007):

This is life, we all get on one another's nerves at times. I love my bloke to bit but i couldn't be doing with him around all the time. I do like my bits of space and the fact that he does work shifts help keep it alive and vibrant. I agree with the women's moods swings. I really look forward to our times together but there are times when i just want to be alone.You are no different from all of us. Don't worry if you really went off him, you would know.

Take care

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A female reader, chazal United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2007):

It's normal for your feelings to fluctuate especially depending on what is happening with your life. You would know if you wanted out of your relationship. The 2 year mark in a relationship i believe is a big one, becuase you have gone past the excitement and now you have to settle into the fact that you are a serious couple.

I would also suggest that it really does depend on your hormones, as much as i hate to play the it becuase you're a woman card, but i really tend to find that my moods are always up and down. plus i'm really affected by my pill as well so maybe consider that?!

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A female reader, Ask Heather +, writes (4 March 2007):

Ask Heather agony auntIt`s normal for feelings to fluctuate; as we all get on each other`s nerves at times! You obviously love your boyfriend a lot, and that`s why you`ve wrote in. You haven`t given your age, and I can only guess from what you`ve said that you`re still quite young. I don`t know if you work or not, it would be really great to have a bit more information to be able to help you with. Kind Regards, Heather.

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