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writes:I am seventeen years old and I recently got into my first serious relationship. My girlfriend recently decided to give me a handjob. It felt great and I really enjoyed it but I was constantly losing my erection and I had to stimulate myself to get it back. Eventually I ended up masturbating myself close to climax and then she finished me off. I am not so concerned about taking a while to climax as I am that I kept losing my erection. Later while I was thinking about it I realized that even when I masturbate by myself if I stop I begin to lose my erection within a minute. Is it normal for teenagers to lose erections so easily and if not is it possible for a teenager to have ED? Also, are there any tricks to make keeping erections easier?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): I would have no issue speaking to my doctor but he is the father of one of my girlfriends best friends and I have been with my girlfriend and her friend at his house before so I don't think it would be hard for him to make the connections. This would concern me that he might feel the need to inform my girlfriends parents.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 July 2010):
I'd suggest that you visit the doctor to rule anything out. You could just be suffering from performance anxiety, or maybe stress or something. But it's worth getting checked over to make sure there's nothing wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): I assume that you are saying I could possibly be gay. I mean I guess I could potentially be just because as a teenager my mind and body haven't fully developed yet and I don't truly know myself yet. But, my whole life I have looked at girls differently than guys and I feel much closer to my girlfriend than I ever could with a guy. I also have a family that would be very accepting of a gay son and as a person I would have no issue admitting that to myself so I feel like there are no mental road blocks as far as coming to a conclusion such as that. I also find it harder to masturbate to any sort of visual stimulation that involves a guy (straight porn), most of the time I have to have just girl(s).
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Oh that little? No, that's definitely not it. Maybe you should talk to a doctor? Have you considered that you might not be attracted to what you think you're attracted to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): I also suggest you see a doctor, or maybe you do not feel comfortable or confident with your girlfriend. I remember when i was you age and I was with my gf, I was hard all the time, the only time I had a problem was with alcohol, things went a bit floppy then, sometimes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): No. I don't think there are any secrets. Maybe you should speak to a mature Doctor about this though. That's about all the advice I can give you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): I used to masturbate about 3 times a week but for the last 2 months I have been doing no more than once a week. I will try stopping completely, thanks.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 July 2010):
Try masturbating less. How often do you masturbate?
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