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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Is it normal for clitoral stimulation to hurt? It might sound weird, but I'll be totally turned on, and when my boyfriend starts messing with my clit it hurts to the point where I have to tell him to stop. Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (25 April 2009):
 Preferred sexual stimulation of a woman requires patience and a degree of skill and understanding. A man who applies clitoral stimulation too soon may well cause irritation or pain. Read my posts on cunnilingus, clitoris or orgasm for descriptive information. Simply enter Double M on (topic) in the search field.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (25 April 2009):
 There are certain times of the month when you are so excited and 'engorged' that your clitoral hood isn't covering and protecting your clitoris anymore - and because off that, direct stimulation is painful. You need to take control by talking your partner through EXACTLY how Delicately you need to to be touched and how much lubrication you need. Don't be shy! Communication is the key to becoming better partners in the bedroom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): No not normal - but will depend on how he is doing it
and for how long and if you are um wet enough...
does it happen often or with oral?
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female
reader, bobbles32 +, writes (25 April 2009):
 It can really hurt if your clit is dry, or he's being too rough or too quick, tell him you like it really gently and when it's all lubed up, should help! if not you might wanna ask a doctor!
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