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writes: When I was with my ex boyfriend I used to get on with his best friend really well. We were quite good friends and he was really sweet and quite the opposite to my ex boyfriend (who turned out to be a bit of a jerk) I've split up with him almost a month ago now but I have still remained close to his best friend which appears to be annoying him, but I didn't think I should stop my friendship with his friend just because I split up with him. But recently I've began to have feelings for my ex's best friend. I've always though he was attractive before but I didn't really think more than that. Now, I'm confused why I'm having these feelings for him all of a sudden. I think he feels the same way. A couple of days ago he leaned in to kiss me but I broke away from him because it didn't feel right. I felt guilty because I wasn't sure whether or not it was morally wrong to be with your ex boyfriends best friend. I really need some advice on this. I don't know what to do.
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reader, kittykatty +, writes (26 March 2006):
this is a tricky problem as you dont know how your boyfriend will act but there is nothing morally wrong with going out with his best friend you to have finshed now and he has to learn to live with it! maybe you should have a long talk with his best friend and make sure you both want a relationship and then although this may seem hard talk to your ex about it... surly they dont want to lose friendship because of you and is only fair you hear his opinion but in the end it is your decision and if you both have feelings for eachother then i wish you all the best! stop feeling guilty and live your life to the max! good luck kitty
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2006): No, there is nothing wrong with dating your ex bf's friend. The worst possible scenario, is your ex bf may not want to travel in the same social circles, if this were to happen. But then that's his problem-he deals with it. You are free to date whom you please. So get over the guilt-you aren't doing anything wrong. Relax and be happy. Good Luck.
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