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*arfunkleaj
writes:I have been going out with my bf for just four months now.I am 18 he is turning 21 this year. Recently, if I have been going to my friends house the things he would say would be ' when are you going home?' that was one time he didn't know I was out. Then, I went to my friends house last week and he was like ' have fun' and all, but when he got home he wanted to know when I was coming home. Then, the other day, before my exam I went to my friends house and he was like ' have you not studied?' I've also been invited out this Saturday to go to a party ( clubbing) I don't really want to go, and he said past few days ' go it will be lots of fun, it's just one night' etc, then, last night he texted me saying ' I'm worried about your safety, I'm sorry. If you want tell her I'm really sick'.Is it me or does he seem jealous when I am with other people or not? What do you think? Also, he tells me if I should accept people on fb. A guy added me last night and he told me not to accept him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 February 2013):
 If he told you to go out with your friends saturday night I can't see how that's jealousy...
as for adding the guy on facebook... how do you know the guy? I don't add folks I don't know unless they come with a recommend from a mutual friend... I don't add random strangers.... that makes sense.
and if you ask him what to do (how else did he know about this guy on facebook) then you are the one creating the drama.
asking what time you will be home sounds like concern for your safety
asking if you studied... while a bit parental is also a concern for your well being.
My hubby... he asks when I ate (I tend to not eat well) did I schedule my mammogram and did i take my pain meds (I don't take them as often as I should) it's not controlling or parental... it's concern for your partner that causes him to ask these things...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2013): I guess he is jealous, though it is normal thing if ur bf cares for you but i think he is scared of losing you
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