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writes:hi maybe i am thinking to much of this one so i would be grateful for any outside views.my boyfriend cheated on me two years ago, it ended once i found out, he is flirty by nature but i knew that when i first met him.he doesnt really have close friends but alot of work colleagues, and for the three years i have known him he never visits friends houses.this past week he has been a bit distant but not really more than how people go when there feeling a bit down or something.today he told me that he has his daughter until tomorrow evening. i text back saying great hope you have a nice time, he text me back two hours later to say that he and his daughter were going to visit a friend 'john' for the night.i said ok i will ring you later.at 6pm i got a text it said, hi thought id ring you before i take 'his daughter out' be back about 11pm, ring me in a minute if your in. otherwise will ring you when im home.to me that means dont ring him when he is out.why? he knows i usually make just quick calls around a few minutes, cant he spare a few minutes? or is he not with who he said?is it me? am i jumping to conclusions?i have decided to ring him at 8, is that just silly?please tell me what you think, does it seem he is lying?he has lied in the past, and not just to me but to others.thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): I have been with my boyfriend for four years. Almost a year ago i caught him cheating on me. If two years later you are still having doubts, I would re-evaluate. Go with your gut girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): i am the original poster.i rang him up at eight like i said, he spoke to me brielfy saying that they were going to have there dinner and that he took his daughter so that she could play with there four year old son. i could hear he was outside, so i said are you in the garden he said yes, why would he go outside to talk to me?, he also ended the conversation quickly saying right i have to go bye, bye. then it went off.maybe i was daft but i text him back saying i only wanted to hear his voice for a few minutes as i missed him. (we only see each other fortnightly), cudnt he give me that.he never text back, so i have sent one saying that he has no interest and too leave me alone.havnt heard form him since.maybe i jumped the gun i dont know, but the reason i am like this is because altho he cheated once, he has tried on a few more occasions, which i found out about. also he never compliments me but calls other women gorgeous and the like and it get me down.all i want really is too know that i have done the right thing, and whether my suspicions about tonight looked likely.thankyou again
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (24 October 2009):
 I agree with CaringGuy.
Good Luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 October 2009):
It all sounds a bit complicated, I have to say. If he had his daughter, why would he take her to stay with 'John'?. And it did seem a bit weird that he didn't want you to call between certain, late times. It's too early to say what exactly is going on, but clearly watch out what happens. If he continues to act this way, then you will need to really find out what is happening. If you find that he's cheated again, don't EVER take him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): i think that seems as he never goes to any of his mates house usually then its a bit suspicious but if you ring him around 8 then he doesnt answer dont show that your angry or upset get revenge go out and with the girls or just go to local pub for a drink leave a npote on the side and go to mates house a few times make him think something is up then when he goes to 'jhons' house next follow him and if he says he is going where he says then you can laugh it up but if he hasnt you can catch him and knock on the 'girls' door hope this helps it worked with me have fuun x
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