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writes:What did he mean?I have been having sex with a friend for some time now, and it slowly died off. We ended up sleeping together last night and he said that he misses this, does he mean me or the sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve +, writes (22 February 2007):
 The simple answer to this question is.... you need to ask him! Plain and simple!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): Hun, it's hard to say what he means. You'll have to ask him that. It's likely a combination of both but I'm thinking he missed the sex more. You and he were having sex regularily before and it died off. So I have to assume it was a 'sex buddy' scenario. The only way these types of situations work out is when both people keep their feelings and emotions out of the sex thing. If you are asking "does he miss me or the sex' then it's plainly obvious, your heartfelt feelings may be involved much more than you you would like or expected. Continuing this 'sex buddy' thing may prove to be more and more painful for you. If I were you, I'd find out if he wants to take this relationship to the next level--possibility a committment. If he doesn't want to do that and hedges...then you have your answer. It means, he just missed the sex. I have to say, if this guy is not offering you more, then's he not the one for you. If you are looking for a more loving, quality relationship..hold out for just that. This could mean being very smart, using your head, being emotionally strong and simply dumping this 'sex buddy guy' for good. This will mean getting proactive and freeing yourself up to finding that special guy that could give you the meaningfulness and love, you deserve. Make the best choices for your happiness. Good luck, sweety.
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