Is it love or obsession?

A male age 41-50, *itch writes:

How does one deal with being insecure, not knowing whether your the only one. You women claim to suffer the most in relationships but this is not always the case. You too hurt men and encourage them to go and hurt other women on the end. Guess this is a vicious cycle that will just go on and on. I really love my Girl friend or should I rather say obsession. She says she feels the same way but I do not trust her at all. It took me about a couple of months to decide that I needed to detach myself emotionally its not easy but its the best medicine. When in a relationship guess we do tend to rush things and thats the price we pay. I have learned so much and willing to help others so ask me and lets see how we can make things better.

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