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Question about anal sex and cleanliness...any advice?

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Question - (12 February 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend have anal sex alot. The other day though it went really messy and embarrassing.

How do u clean the anal area so that it is clean.

He is really good though and washes his penis after but i just want my anal area to be clean.

Can anyone help or is this a stupid question?!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009):

I've been having anal sex of over ten years, at least once or twice a month, but for a while nearly daily (yes it was really FUN at first! Still is, but variety is good!). Only once has there been even the hint of poo. my GF does nothing special... no enemas, no hot bath, she may not do it on a full stomach. Keep in mind, poo doesn't hang in the last 6" of your digestive tract...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

Take the end off your shower hose and direct it inside ur ass, not too much or else u will fill up with water! Use a soaped finger to check inside to make sure you are clean!

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2008):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntpoo can be a usefull lubricant as long as its runny! but seriously that is part of the mental thrill and is unavoidable and frankly the anus is not a vagina. It will be messy and if you can slide a wet wipe up there does that not suggest that it is a little bit loose, remember overuse of the back passage can lead to incontinence and that is far more embarassing as the people at work dont get the fun of sticking their cocks up your ass before they smell the poo on your chair so beware...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

Hey honey

Well, to keep it clean, go through a general cleanliness routine that you would do to any other part of your body. The last post gave great advice, try using a wet wipe. Also, use plenty of soap AND a shower gel. And to make it really clean and beautiful smelling, you could put on a scented moisturiser. Do this every day.

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A female reader, Crazy-Candice United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2008):

Crazy-Candice agony auntahh same thing happened to me once and I was really embarrassed then i thought;

that if guys want to go THERE then theyre the ones taking the risk!

It is embarrasing though.....

The best I can suggest is use a wet wipe and slide your figer a few inches inside your anus just to clean some faecal residue,

then during the anal sex; if you feel it getting a bit messy just stop and give it a quick wipe.

if youre having unprotected anal sex/bareback then you could have it in the shower maybe this would help.

make sure you have a poo an hour or so before anal sex this will also make it cleaner and less chance of embarrassment....

just remember to try not to be embarrassed, guys know where theyre putting their penis and they know what happens in that hole so its their risk.

some even say that guys like to take that risk... lol :)

:)

Candicex

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