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anonymous
writes: I Have been with my partner for a year and a half, im also 4 months pregnant so we are both expecting our first child. im 18, he is 24. Ever since i have fallen pregnant i have turnt really clingy with him, i never use to be this way. he works so he is always on the road as he is mechanic and goes to customers houses to fix there cars, however i dont like him having this job, the reason for that is because him being late home is becoming a habit now and its starting to worry me, i think he may be being unfaithful. maybe its just my trust issues (been messed around in the past a lot) i have accused him a few times now, and last night when i told him my worries and what i think he is doing he just said, believe what you want, i cant make you believe me, and he said im pushing him away. i know i am but i cant help that i have a gut feeling something aint right, he came back 3 hours late last night, it happens at least once or twice a week, he came back with his top creased and his hair flat...usually his hair gel always keeps it up. i even went through his washing today and looked through his boxers to see if they smelt like sex or had any stains in them, but they didn't. being this way is making me very unhappy and all i keep thinking is why would he do that to me and our baby...i do everything for him, cook his dinners, wash his clothes, buy him little things to know im thinking of him, my hormones are all over the place and im that close to throwing him out because i do believe he is cheating. please give me some advice Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): hi
Firstly i need to say that i was in the same situation, a year ago...also accused my boyfrien of having an afair, and all the sighns of me are in you... the only thing that i need to tell you is STOP, you are puching him away, and out of experience, he likes it when you trust him no matter what!, my boyfriend cheated on me with a nother girl when i had my baby, she was three months old... just stop accusing him, try working with him and understanding, i know it is hard... but relax on all that you are feeling... the truth will come out on its own when it is happening... if not he is still faithfull.
Love him, and show it every day
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): hi
Firstly i need to say that i was in the same situation, a year ago...also accused my boyfrien of having an afair, and all the sighns of me are in you... the only thing that i need to tell you is STOP, you are puching him away, and out of experience, he likes it when you trust him no matter what!, my boyfriend cheated on me with a nother girl when i had my baby, she was three months old... just stop accusing him, try working with him and understanding, i know it is hard... but relax on all that you are feeling... the truth will come out on its own when it is happening... if not he is still faithfull.
Love him, and show it every day
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