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30-35,
*artles22
writes:I've been going out with my girlfriend for two months now, and we really really care for each other. She is my first real girlfriend and means a hell of a lot to me.We've got to second base, although it is pretty much one way, i.e., I give her a great deal more than she gives me. It started out pretty evenly, but then it started decreasing the number of times she jerked me off. It's quite common that we'll me making out and she'll start rubbing my penis, but then will stop, and so i'll finger her, to be blunt, and that's it. It's quite frustrating, and I don't really know what to do so that I can get her to help me out, but not seem rude.Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, Rachael2310 +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Hello! Personally I think you should try and concentrate on how much you love and respect her rather than concentrating on counting how many times she 'jerks you off'
If i were you i'd lay off any sexual activity for now, even maybe gently pushing her away if she tries. Do this for a short while, just play it cool but let her know she's special and she'll soon b putty in youhands and want to take things further.
Like i say, stop concentrating on the sex for a bit.
Hope this helps
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reader, Liza999  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Next time she starts to touch you encourage her ....tickle her ego a little ...."That feels so good baby" "I love the way you do that" Do you know why she is stopping? Is she worried that you will cum and that'll be the end of it? Does she know that you really like when she touches you?
Whateva you do, dont take her hand and put them on your goods! big turn off :) gluck!
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