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Is it just me or does he act kind of distant?

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Question - (26 February 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I'm crushing on this guy right now... but I'm not sure if he is interested in me. The first impression I got when I met him is that he was shy- he didn't look me in the eye, but he asked me a lot of questions. The first time I saw him, I caught him staring at me. Now, I always catch him looking at me (but I feel like a lot of guys 'observe' the surroundings). He's very polite- he holds the door for me and is very nice. The first time our mutual friend met me, he told Crush to go for me. Then our mutual friend told me to go for him. Sometimes the mutual friend asks me if I like him. When I asked the mutual friend if Crush likes me, he said, he doesn't know me that well. (That's what I told the mutual friend about Crush). I asked our mutual friend why he's trying to hook us up together and he said I deserved a nice guy like Crush.

Sometimes, I say hi to crush and he just looks straight ahead (I'm figuring he doesn't see me). Today, all of his friends (which are my friends as well) said bye to me for the break and crush just stared off in the distance. When I went to throw something out, I caught Crush looking at me from the corner of my eye. I just smiled at him.

Is it just me or does he act kind of distant? I can't tell if he's doing it because he's not interested or if it's because he's too shy. I just don't know what to think of it - I don't want to put myself out there if the guy isn't interested.

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