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writes:I've been with this girl for about 5 months now and we've been really close and in love etc. But recently she's seemed very distant, so I talked to her about it and eventually she told me that she is unsure if we are working and is unsure how she feels about me. I asked her if the problem was my fault and she keeps telling me it's not my fault and that it's hers. I've asked her if there's anything I can do to help her but she can't think of anything. I'm so worried that she is gonna break up with me over this and I feel so helpless and it's making me really upset. I don't want to lose her, she means so much to me and all this seemed to happen over night, I can't understand what's happened. I'm also pretty sure there isn't someone else involved, so I'm not worried about that. I really need some advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDon't worry I aint worrying about it, I want nothing to do with her any more, I'm just hoping this new guy cheats on her or something just so she knows exactly how I feel. All I care about now is making her feel bad about her self
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionRight I don't think we'll be getting back together. Basically I saw he with another guy the other day and got a bit suspicious, so later on I went on this guys facebook and low and behold it said that he had gone from single to in a relationship, it didn't say with who but from the comments below it sounded like he didn't want anyone to know who it was and to keep it on the down low for now, also the first comment was dated the same day as we broke up, therefore he must of started going out with this person either on the same day or before. So I confronted my ex about it and asked her if she was seeing anybody else at the moment and she said she was, so I took a guess at who it was and of course I was right. So we started arguing and I kept asking her if she broke up with me to be with him, because it seemed that way, but she kept telling me that she didn't realise he liked her until a couple of days ago and that nothing happened before or while we were going out and that the other guy is just jumping to conclusions, but surely she must of done or said something to him to make him think this way. I don't believe her at all but she is adamant that she didn't cheat on me with him or left me for him. Besides even if she is telling the truth she's gotten over me very quickly, we haven't even been broken up a week yet, so I obviously didn't mean that much to her. But anyway thanks for all your help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the help, just one more question, how long should I wait before making contact with her again and what should I say to her when I do. I still want her but I don't wanna sound desperate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell we broke up this morning :( feeling pretty upset right now. But I'm just gonna give her some space and hope that she changes her mind about us, I've agreed to carry on being friends, just gonna take your advice and hope for the best thanks
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