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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I've been working with this guy and have known him for almost a year....we've always been friends and I haven't been attracted to him until recently. He lets me borrow his DVDs of this tv show he got me into. I'm not sure if he likes me, but my friend who works at the same place thinks he might. He's usually friendly with everyone and has a bubbly personality. Whenever we work together pretty much all we talk about is the TV show...-he always stands really close when talking to me and if we're both on our phones he will show me a picture and come so close our arms touch. When we talk I feel like he's looking at my lips too. But he's never actually flirted with me. The other day I gave him a ride home from work and used his bathroom in his house...I met his mom, it was a little awkward. And the other night I texted him and said "I like your face" (I was a bit drunk) and he relied the next morning and said "what?? Lol" and then a day later I said "I miss you" and he never responded and we haven't talked since. And the other day something happened at work and I was really upset and he said things to make me feel better and put his arm around me and pat my back. It seems like he might not have a lot of experience with girls, but I'm just confused cause is it just his personality or does he really like me? Should I make another move?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2015): Maybe he just doesn't have any experience."I LIKE YOUR FACE" that's cute..any way you nerd to bring up girls..ask him if he has a gf.if he says no ask him if he wants one and see where it goes from there he might be gay to.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 February 2015):
I think it's his personality. (sorry) IF he was into you, he would have taken either of the two openings you gave him ( the "I like your face" and "I miss you") but he didn't.
So since you guys work together I'd keep being professional and not cross that line.
I think he likes you, but NOT that way.
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