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female
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*ink Princess
writes: If your boyfriend says he loves you but doesn't show it... is he saying it cause he means it or just cause he thinks you want to hear it? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, AskEve +, writes (4 July 2007):
Was he getting reassurance from you that you felt all of this too? If not, then me might just have lost faith and gave up trying.
Eve
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female
reader, Pink Princess +, writes (4 July 2007):
Pink Princess is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe was the first to say I Love you... and was the type to always send messages or just get my attention as we sit watching a movie... and say i love you... he used to count down the days til we got to see each other by... only one more sleep... at the beginning he always told me how he felt and in the last couple of weeks nothing.... just confused to why he would stop ...
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female
reader, love-him +, writes (3 July 2007):
Hey babe, men are so hard to understand at times.. if he loves you, id expect him to say it then id expect him to at least show a little of it towards you.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (3 July 2007):
Pinkie, I've seen several posts by you. I see you have an important issue to deal with, but you have divided it into pieces. I wonder if you could give us the whole picture, so we can help you better.
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male
reader, Danielepew +, writes (3 July 2007):
Sometimes people show they love us in ways we fail to appreciate. Some men are not into "I love you" thing, but they will do things for you to show they care. I wonder if this is the case here.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (3 July 2007):
Everyone shows their feelings differently and in my experience a man finds it harder to say these 3 little words than a woman does. Maybe he doesn't show it in a tactile way but he might show it in other ways ie making sure you get home safely, looks after you when you're out together, pays for the meal, cinema etc. All these things are ways of showing he cares. In what ways would you LIKE him to show you he loves you? What do you feel is missing?
Eve
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female
reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (3 July 2007):
Well if he really meant it, surely he would show it as well as say it. It seems like hes just saying it because you want to hear it.
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