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Is it gay if you turn yourself on?

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Question - (4 May 2022) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2022)
A male United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

When I masturbate I like to do it in the bathroom standing in front of this big mirror we have so I can watch myself while I stroke and orgasm. I do it after a shower almost every time. That is one way to have privacy too from my parents and sisters. I read something that said if you like to watch yourself like that it means you are homosexual for yourself. I do not want to have sex with guys but I do like how I look naked and when I orgasm. Does that make me gay?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2022):

I think using a mirror is like a positive feedback loop for arousal. So not necessarily a gay thing

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2022):

Lookup the definition of a homosexual. Read scientific publications about the behavior. Draw your own conclusion.

You said you read something about it? Was it written by a qualified psychologist or psychiatrist, or was it just an opinion made by some layman?

If other guys don't turn you on, what are you worried about? Who would know about it, unless you overshared? If you're worried about what others would think keep it to yourself. Unless someone spies on you, who would know or care?

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2022):

kenny agony auntI'm not sure what is that you were reading, but i would take it with a pinch of salt to be honest because watching yourself masturbate does not make you gay.

By your own admission you say that you don't want to have sex with guys. I'm sure if there was a poll you would probably find that a large portion of straight males do the same thing.

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