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writes:This may sound funny and stupid,but you need to help me out. Am in university and i stay in off campus,but my guy which i met stays in hostels,he don't know how to cook so he bought all the things for cooking and brought it to my lodge. So i do the cooking and he always come to eat. Each time he comes we always stay in the room for 1 to 2hrs discussing about school,our love,family,friends and our future,and he has never a day ask for sex or to kiss me,instead he love touching my hair and hands. Though am satisfy with that,but my neighbour {a guy} told me that it is bad for a guy to always come and stay with his girl like that,instead i should be the one to go to his place. But if i go to his place their will be no privacy since he stays in hostel. Please friends advice me,cause we can't stay a day without seeing each other. Am i doing the right thing,by him coming to my place everyday?. If i am not tell me what to do. Please i'll appreciate if you all can assist me in this. Thanks in a million.
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reader, llifton  +, writes (16 June 2011):
 i'm not sure i understand the logic in why it's not okay for him to come to your place? what's the problem with that. don't listen to that guy. he has no clue what he's talking about. if you two are happy, don't change a thing.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 June 2011):
 I think it sounds perfectly fine to me.
I go to my BF most of the time but that's because we are used to his place more than mine.. I wish he came to mine more...
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (15 June 2011):
 it's not bad for your boy friend to come i mean that's so normal just have fun and enjoy his company ( with limits) and if people bother you why won't you guys meet in an other place where no one will disturb ....and tell that guy to keep his nose out of your business ....it's fine....good luck
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