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writes:i like this girl. we were at a party, I have seen her a few times around my neighbourhood and I heard from my friend that she likes me also. the party was at my friends house and there was a dance as well. she was dancing and she was facing me, the whole time. I was watching the dance and of course watching her as well when out of nowhere my female cousin came and join me. she stood very close to me and she was like any annoying cousin would do, fussing over me and touching me. i tried to keep a distance but she wouldn't bug off. when I look up again my crush wasn't around. she was sitting down with her back facing me. after about 10 minutes later she join in the dance but she wasn't facing me again. I feel sad and frustrated.is this a sign that she really likes me? do I have a chance with her? is it worth explaining to her that, that annoying girl is my cousin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2015): hi. she may or may not like you, it's hard to say from what you wrote as I am unsure if you were reading too much into her watching you because you like her...but that said, it wouldn't hurt to tell her it was ur annoying cousin, so if she does like you at least she can know your cousin wasn't some girl you may be interested in.
try and do it casually, maybe tell her she looked great at the party and you meant to say...but then your annoying cousin came over and when you looked back she was gone, or something like that. she'll give you a sign if she likes you if you put it like that, and if she doesn't then it allows you both to comment no more on the matter but move onto something else to discuss.
good luck!
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reader, MaskOn  +, writes (13 August 2015):
 I love this question!While it's not a sign that she really likes you, it's a sign that she was upset when she thought she found out that you were already taken or that you didn't like her back. Obviously, it's with explaining the situation to her, and it's better if you do too. You won't end up thinking what if you had done it which is always really annoying to think.I suggest you plan some kind of friends get together and your friend who told you that she said she likes you should invite her. Maybe invite the annoying female cousin along too. This gives you a smooth way of introducing your cousin to the girl and then you could casually mention the party. Maybe a joke ("I saw you at that party right? You had some funky moves!")? Ease your way into the conversation after you clear up the obvious misunderstanding.You should probably do this as soon as possible to avoid things like her finding someone else or forgetting you and the party altogether. I don't think she'd move on that fast though but who knows?Also, even if she didn't initially like you, this is a chance to make her like you back... And get to know her more.I hope it all works out and I already support this relationship!
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