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Is it a good thing to have a man who loves you but does not always want you?

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Question - (4 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Question: Is it a good thing to have a man who loves you but does not always want you?

I am a newly wed woman, married for just one year.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

In responds to the replies that i have seen to my own question: "want" as in desired...and this being a year of marriage, I had hoped for some sort of balance. He is very much a businessman, in that work, does take up much o his time (in the home,on the computer)I have been told that I ma still pretty much a newly-wed,so maybe I am unsure of what exactly to expect.Hope this helps as all of the answers ahve helped me

Thank You

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (4 August 2008):

O Connor agony auntwell it depends on what you are really looking for in the marriage. if you are looking for a marriage based more on friendship, security, and trust then i suppose its ok.

if you are looking for a marriage based on passion, true love, sex, happiness and intimacy...then i suppose its not!!

a huge part of truly being 'in love' is desire and want for the other person. it sounds to me like your marriage is based more on love and friendship rather then the latter.

it really is up to you what you want from this man.

email me if you wanna talk more about this. xxx

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A male reader, Shipwreckd United States +, writes (4 August 2008):

Shipwreckd agony auntDefine "want you."

I think you need to define your situation a bit more before anyone can render a truly informed response.

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