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writes:I broken up with my Ex Three months ago, we were together over 5years but he was going through a tough time emotionaly, and at that time it was too much for me and i did the right thing by ending it. But I do still care and there are no hard feelings left. I really would like to send him a Christmas card as first point of contact in awhile is this a good idea? we havent been in touch since the split.Any surgestions would be great!
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reader, christmas_cards  +, writes (16 September 2008):
Go ahead and send him a Christmas Card. Make it nice, but don't lead him on. If you need more Christmas Cards this year for friends and family check this site out. http://www.designcrafters.com
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (4 December 2007):
 Well if you are inviting him to come back to your life then by all means send him a FRIENDLY christmas card. Dont express too much on how you still feel about him. If you dont want any future contact or tension between you both then my best idea is to not send him one at all. The past is the past and there are reasons they are still there. Decide on what you expect out of this. To you it may seem like not a big deal and just a way to say " Hey, how you doin?" but to others it may be a sign out of desperation. Think about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): Personally i wouldnt send a card, but that is me. If you have made the split and havent been in touch and dont want to get back in touch then why send a card? Some exs could see it as either an invite to get things back on track or that you are lonely and desperate and in need of someone else. I wouldnt send it.
take care
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