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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, Ive been with my b/f for 6 and a half yrs, and we broke up last week. I was unhappy because I felt he was taking me for granted and that I was left to do with all the responsiblity of running a house... whilst he never showed any care and consideration for me whilst I was doing this. The lack of care, and out of sight out of mind attitude he has contributed to us breaking up. But that was his descision. I suggested he move out and see how we would feel about each other without all the other distractions. But he said no, and thought we should break up. Anyway, I did a silly thing yesterday and checked his mobile. He had a text of someone saying 'you are the most amazing man I have ever met, and you are not a mard(weakling). Anyone would feel the same, and I am so glad we are so close'. I dont know the person, I have never met them, and in 6 and a half years he has never mentioned this person to me. It sounds like a girl who likes him has responded to him confiding in her about our break up. Do you think he is lining her up to take my place? Or that he wants to jump into bed with someone asap and approached her to let her know he's now available?
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (3 December 2007):
 He's probably been having an affair behind your back for awhile, hence the reason he seemed disconnected from your relationship prior to your break up and was so quick to break up, rather than "take a break". Think carefully about your daily routines and see if you can spot the pattern. Was he working longer hours, finding excuses to go out without you, or traveling more on business? There are usually signs, and we are frequently blind to them because we don't see them at first. That would be my guess.
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