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writes:I decided to be only friends with the man i used to date the previous two years as there isn't a possibility to be together in the future as he had made that clear to me. However, i like him, i think he is an interesting man and i don't want to cut the communication with him at all. Sometimes we meet each other as friends, although it isn't easy every time. I try to hide my feelings and not show him any special love interest. He usually tries to provoke me and make me jealous but i show him that i don't care. We usually have fun when we are together because he has many friends and always there are people around, i have a good time with him because he is great and lovely in a company. I don't want to miss him at all but i decided to not be involved with him in a love relationship. Is it good my decision or it would be difficult to keep this attitude as sometimes i will meet and go out with him as friends?
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Hi Hunny
All I can say to you is go slow and go with your head, Ive just come out of a relationship of over 2yrs and he wants to be friends but at this moment in time I cannot.
Its not that I don't care or don't like his company but we had a good relationship, Yes towards the end it was not the same but never the less I do have good memory's.. I myself feel I have to heal first before I can be in his company as a friend..It must be very difficult for you knowing you still feel something hunny so just take it one day at a time and don't get hurt, You do need time to heal from this relationship and you don't need to be made to feel jealous in any way as this to me is adding fuel to an already burning fire in your heart...TAKE CARE OF YOU FIRST LOVE WITH HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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