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writes:Well people are gonna think I'm a right bitch i just have to tell someone, im 17 years old, and having an afair with a man who has a gf and little boy! i feel really sick about it but i didnt know until about a week ago, i really liked this man but hes 28 years old is this too old? he's the nicest person ive met he does anything for me , he said to me hes gonna leave his gf for me, but i feel total bad as he has a little boy aswell, i really didnt know about this until not that long ago, but i think if he left his gf for me , whos too say he wouldnt do it to me?all i wanna know as if i should go ahead and let him leave his gf or be the better one and walk away!please help me , ive never told anyone yet x
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 I agree, be the better woman and walk away from this man... if he could cheat on his gf, and he left her for you, would you trust him? I have no doubt that he would cheat on you too.
Also, I honestly dont think he is going to leave his gf for you..
Walk away and look for single guys to be with!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the great advice, and yeah im sure gonna walk away! xxxx
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reader, busy04  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 Yes he is too old & he could very well get in trouble with the law over this.
Now that you know about his commitment to someone else, you should walk away from it. To stay involved will only bring you much heartbreak, heartbreak that a young girl your age should not have to experience so soon. This guy is clearly using you, and trust me that although he said he would leave to be with you 100 times out of 100...he won't. Don't let him use you any longer, you have a bright future & a long life ahead of you. You don't need to be with someone that's a liar,a cheat & already has commitment to a family. You deserve better sweetheart.
Best wishes!
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 Be the better one and walk away and it's not your fault if you had sex with him and didn't know about his gf.Your smart and I know you will make the right choice.I feel bad for his gf and child for having such a dishonest man as their bf/father. You will don't want to get mixed up in that. It's also considered rape because you are underage. He could go to jail because he had sex with you.Wait til your 18 to have sex next time...Good Luck and I hope you find someone who is honest and will love you. And be honest, do you really want to be with a man that cheated and would leave his child?
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