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female
age
36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes: I need opinions on a new relationship a friend has gotten into!She is starting to date this guy from work since the very end of July, however, she doesnt know that he is a lying cheating type, but I do. He has had at least 5 other women in the last 9 months (I was one of them) and he is going into med school while she is leaving for another province for school again (meaning, he could easily have other women while she's away im thinking). They always text, hang out, touch etc, but I have a feeling its not going to last and I dont want to see him win againWhat are your opinions on this new hookup? Am I right to see this only as a summer fling?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (22 August 2008):
You cant tell people who to see. They never listen, and why would they i guess. She obviously really likes this guy. All you can do is mention that he's a bit of a womaniser and you dont think he will be the type she can rely on. The rest ultimately will be up to her wont it. And when it all goes tits up, be there for her. She might have to go through one of lifes cruel lessons here, and horrible as it will be for you, you will have sit back and watch the car crash unfold because there is really no other option.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, caraduddy +, writes (22 August 2008):
You should warn her so she doesn't end up upset. Let her know what he's like. Then its up too her. If he does cheat or something it was her chance.
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