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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:This girl and ii were planning on going out for our third date. She had previously not returned a late Phone call of mine, but a few days later when I asked her out she said yes, and that she was excited and couldn't wait. I texted a few days later, she didn't respond. I texted a day or so later with a question about making plans, and we made unofficial plans. She just texted me some bad news(a close death in the fam) and asked if we could reschedule. I said yes and suggested a day. She said she was at work(nurse) and did t have her planner, but would get back to me. Is that code for a blow off?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (29 November 2011):
 Mmm I want to say it is, but then again it could be very true. Nurses do work long, strenuous 12 hour shifts. Then again if she was really that into you, she would put forth more of an effort regardless of her career. I know plenty of nurses who juggle children, dating, and furthering their degree. So it's just a matter of priorities and how high you rate on that list.
I'd give it 1 more shot but if she still seems a bit dodgy, then I would lose her number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2011): I'd say she could be busy to her job vocation but even then; are you prepared to have a lot of missed commitments to meet/date?
Personally, I'd find someone else to date or at best, keep dating options open until she decides if she wants to meet for certain.
Give her one more chance than block her completely.
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