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How do I break up with Jimmy (who lives out of state) and hook up with Joey (who lives in town)... ?

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Question - (12 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, *loriawk55 writes:

I have a boyfriend, I will call him Jimmy. I like him, his sister is my bff, and she would be so hurt if I broke up with him. Well, I have lost the magic with and attracted to a kid that lives in my town, unlike Jimmy who lives across the state. Well, the kid in my class, I will call him Joey, well, everyone knows we like eachother? How do I break up with Jimmy? And when I break up with him,How do I propose to Joey to go out? I am a girl, and that is unheard of in my town. Any advice would help!

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A female reader, gloriawk55 United States +, writes (12 August 2007):

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gloriawk55 agony auntUm...There is a problem. We have lost the spark for months. Also, he cheated on me, but I didn't have the nerve to break up with him immediately. And I have been thinking about this for three months. But only till recently I have decided that we are over. Does that chane anyone's view?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007):

to be honest, you have to ask yourself are yu really sure you want to break up with "jimmy"? is it becasue of something important or is this just a glitch in your relationship?

i nearly broke up with my boyfriend because we lost the "spark" but after a few romantic nights and a holiday we're better than ever. sometimes all you need to do is kick start things again.

if you suddenly dump "jimmy" then go for "joey" straight away then it will be very obvious to everyone that you have been planning this.

if you do break it off with "jimmy", just say you don't feel the same and need some time apart.

wait a while, say 2weeks, and if you still feel the same tell "jimmy" you don't want to get back together and go for "joey". this way you wont end up hurting anyone more than you should.

hope this helps!

xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007):

to be honest, you have to ask yourself are yu really sure you want to break up with "jimmy"? is it becasue of something important or is this just a glitch in your relationship?

i nearly broke up with my boyfriend because we lost the "spark" but after a few romantic nights and a holiday we're better than ever. sometimes all you need to do is kick start things again.

if you suddenly dump "jimmy" then go for "joey" straight away then it will be very obvious to everyone that you have been planning this.

if you do break it off with "jimmy", just say you don't feel the same and need some time apart.

wait a while, say 2weeks, and if you still feel the same tell "jimmy" you don't want to get back together and go for "joey". this way you wont end up hurting anyone more than you should.

hope this helps!

xxxx

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