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writes:My ex broke up with me 4 months ago. It hurt me so bad. I did little pty things to him like: lashing out at him alot because I got his attention that way and I pushed him away. This has been the longest 4 months of my life. I know that I messed things up and he doesn't have trust in me, but I keep havings feelings for him that keeps me wanting him back. When he sees me he stares at me and he even told me that he still has feelings for me. I call him and left him a message like: I miss you being in my life, I miss my friend, if I could change the way I did things I would, but I can't, I can only go from this day forward. I told him that it was on my heart and I knew that he had lost trust in me. He called me to tell me that he was calling to acknowledge the message that I left and that it was deep. He also told me that he didn't know what to say. I miss hearing his voice because he don't call me like he use to. What did he mean when he said that my message was deep? Is he trying to get over me by not calling? What did he mean when he said that he didn't know what to say when he heard my message?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): I know this hard. Rejection is the worlds worst to get over. Save face and let him go. Sometimes they come back when you seem as if you dont care any more. Think of number one.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 We could speculate a lot about his motives or his opinions. Let's stick to the facts, instead: he isn't calling you. He's moving on. I guess you should do the same.
Take your time to think what you did wrong, why, and don't repeat that in the future.
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