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Is he too scared to come over while my parents are away?

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Question - (25 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My parents are going away for the holidays and I'm gonna be home alone for a week. I've mentioned this to my boyfriend and we joked about me inviting him over for dinner one day and in the end I promised him to invite him over as soon as they're gone. (I always brag about how I'm a good cook, we joke about it, and he told me numerous times how he'd love to try some of my cooking, so I thought I'd use dinner as an excuse to invite him over.) My parents are leaving tomorrow morning and we were texting and he said he missed me and hopes to see me tomorrow (meaning tomorrow night, we always go out in the evening). I saw this as an opportunity and told him maybe he could come over for dinner, if he didn't have something else in mind. And his reply was - "Yeaah, I don't know, I'm supposed to visit my grandma, so I'm not sure if I can make it, we'll see." So a minute ago he asked me to go out and now all of a sudden he has to visit his grandma? Wtf? We've been together for 3 months and this would be our first time hanging out at home, alone. Obviously, we haven't had sex yet (but he's not a virgin), but we've made out before and felt each other up many, many times. So, now I'm confused. Why doesn't he want to come over? Is he scared? Does he not want to have sex with me?

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A female reader, love6269 United States +, writes (28 December 2009):

I think you should talk to him about it. Maybe he isn't ready to go that far with someone. Or maybe he's telling the truth. You aren't going to find out unless you talk to him about it.

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