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writes:I need serious help,um 20,single all the way. i love this girl ,she s my first love. I asked her out 9months ago. She rejected me. I was upset, life was hard. I was gettin over her. But failed ,couldn like any other girl .cant think of anyone except her. So, 3weeks she had cut her veins and i was for her there all d way. she suddenly came closer wid me,she ll hold my hands,n always be close. Then i heard from her friend that her boy friend was caught red handed wid her friend.That was okay, This change happened all of a sudden. She d rest her head on my shoulder, be close me. We would hang out etc. We had fun last few days. Now 3days back her idiot bf said sorry to her,just a sorry and she seems to forgive him and give another chance. Now in a moment things changed. She wont even care callin me, she wouldnt let me get closer to her. And expecting to get back with her bf. How can she trust that guy again? I love her so much. I cant sleep, cant do anything. The pain is too much. Um on vacation,and have nothing to do other than literally crying for her. Pls pls tell me what to do, u can tell me she is bad or she used me. But i still love her,want her. Pls help me.pls . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): This is all about emotions and feelings there is no logic.
You sound MORE like her girlfriend .Think and act cool.Don't sit and listen to her bla bla about the boyfriend. This I'm sensitive crying crap spells loser in a women's eyes.
Attraction is a powerful drug some women can't help it.Especially if she is emotionally damaged.It's like a stray dog living on the streets,they tend to get used to eating out of garbage cans.I'm afraid a friend is all she sees in you, get used to it.
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reader, nico1  +, writes (26 December 2009):
dude same here im really sorry im goin through the same thing . she probably sees you as a leeaning post to wait for him . he is only going to hurt her again just bee careful not to let her use you as a post . the pain will fade with time how much time is up to you if im wrong im sorry but unless she tells you she wants to be with you she probably dont you are her shoulder to cry on but be carefull not to hold on to long if you do you will be hurt even more when you ealize it wont happen
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