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Is he staying for me or for the kids? How can I really tell?

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Question - (16 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

I have been in a relationship for almost 5 years and we have 2 kids together. I really love him, and I want to be together forever.We have been fighting a lot lately and now I think he wants to end things. He tells me hes not happy and he is gonna leave, but then we talk and were ok. But my question is, how do i know if he is only here because of the kids, or because he truely wants to be with me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008):

It is very difficult; I don't know why you have been fighting or what caused the arguments;

BUT

I do suggest, if you really want to make this relationship work; suggest to your partener that you both go for counseling;

Best wishes and lots of SMILES

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