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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:This guy is confusing me. We have worked together for two years, we have always got on and swapped mobile numbers, we text now and then not all the time, we have kissed quite intense, he has never asked me out although I have dropped hints a few times but then decided he wasn't interested, I acually thought he had a girlfriend but then we kissed again, he doesn't talk to me some days and then other days he goes out his way to talk to me. He recently bought me a present and I haven't spoke to him since, I know he isn't busy and he only seems interested when allhis mates aren't around, but I really like this guy what are your thoughts?I am thinking he has a girlfriend and he is playing me to see if I am 'easy' and up for a quickie but deep down I really hope that he likes me!
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reader, boo22 +, writes (19 October 2009):
 Hi. You really need to find out what this guys situation is, whether he's with someone or not, then take it from there.
He seems to me from what you've written distracted by something or somebody. This would explain the hot and cold behaviour.
Next time you talk to him if i was you i'd have to ask him whats going on in his personal life somehow.
I'd take it easy with this guy hun, just to be sure he doesn't do the hot and cold thing as a matter of course in a relationship.
If you became his gf and you fell in love and he still behaves in the same way, it could be really upsetting.
Good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 October 2009):
You need to talk to him and really get to know him. If he really likes you, he'll take his time and won't pressure you into anyting. If he's just playing you, he'll be in a hurry. Take your time, get to know him and see where it leads.
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