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30-35,
*heekyme
writes:Arhh, I have a bf and i love him, but it seems like he dosnt love me much well i mean, ok so, at dinner time at school b4 we went out he was all ways all over me hugging holding hands kissin ( only messin bout on face nd hands nd tht0 and propa flirting. then after we got together hes being more distnant still like huggin n tht but like more flirting with other girls and with his ex, and i just feel excluded from him now but i love him too much to leave him or argue about it with him so i just spend time with him wen i have the chance.and well i supose the qeustion is what should i do? is he really i love with me ? does he not wonna be with me any more or is he just being independant?im not sure wot to do please could some one help ?
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reader, shiraz +, writes (18 September 2008):
hiyahh, its common for the begining fire of the relationship starting to burn out you cant have those first few months forever its like the honeymoon period it doesnt last forever you have to adjust to the change in your relationship the fact that you are now used to each other and know each other a lot more does not mean he no longer feels the same way he did the first time he saw you he just no longer feels he has to showit every day, just let him know that sometimes you wonder how hes feeling cuz he neva lets it show and you need to know where you stand, remind him you love him and that you understand that he cant be lovey constantly but some affection would be nice!
As for the flirtin with the ex its comon for the (you)his new girl to feel intimidated by his ex she once had what you have but that was then this is now hes with you but they will alayws have that connection of a past nothing can change that.
Guys flirt a lot wheter they are with somebody or not just let him know it makes you insecure and he will respect your feelings you obviously love him so talk to him, best of luck :)
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reader, Dear Danielle +, writes (18 September 2008):
 Mabey he is to imature to no what love is you seem to feel really strongly for him and if you feel excluded u need to tell him and let him no or its not worth it
i do really hope this goes ok for u hun i really do private message me if yyou need to ask anything more
GOOD LUK XOX
Danielle
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