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writes: long story, I added him on FB, he accpeted, then I unfriended him because I felt I needed to move on and my online "crush" wasn't going any where, so he sent me a text asking me, 'why I unfriended' him and asking me to stay in touch. I didn't for a long while. At Christmas he sent me a greeting, so I greeted him back on New Year's day. A day later, he replied and asked to be added again. I ignored the request. Nearing his birthday, I sent him a greeting. He sent me another friendship request and I finally accepted. It's been two months now, and he's ignoring me completely. Shall I unfriend him again and move on for good! it's a silly FB ping-pong which I've no intention of starting!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 May 2012):
 I agree with oldbag
unfriend him
block him
and block his number on your phone.
he should "be dead" to you... as if he does not exist.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (4 May 2012):
 Well if you think it's worth a shot then ask him out on a real date. If he still ignores you then I'd forget him.
If you bug him and keep on, he might think you are a bit desperate.
Hope you sort it out x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): Up to you but I think your wasting your time. If a man is interested in getting to know you he does. Simple. All he has done is add you to FB and ignore you. If you want it to go somewhere then you could send one message asking HIM out. But only one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice ladies, trouble is I still kind of fancy him and would like him to make a move and see what I'll do about it, shall I wait a bit longer before I write him off for good?!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (4 May 2012):
Sounds like he just wants you in the net.
Apparently it's a stupid 'guy thing' that some men like to have lots and lots of women on their profile (even if they have no intention of ever speaking to you again)to make them look popular and wanted...it's an ego boost, and a really stupid one at that.
Don't just remove him...block his profile, that way he cannot contact you again and you can forget about him.
You have 'no intention' of playing the back and fourth game, so make a decision, cut him off and stick to it...
It's his loss.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (4 May 2012):
 Hi
Yes unfriend,block and move on I dont know what his silly game is but it is clearly not going anywhere.Delete his number too and forget him.
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