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writes:hey, okay so here's the thing: i know this guy....lets call him J. Me and J were together a while back, when we first met, but it ended badly and we didnt speak for nearly a year. About four months ago though we started talking again and he's been really flirty with me (dancing with me and holding me close with his hands on my bum, etc.) and i've kind of fallen for him all over again!! But its worse this time, i've not felt like this for someone in a loooooooooong time! I've told him about this beacause i thought it best to be straight with him. J said he thinks he likes me too but needs to sort some things out in his head first. What does this mean??? However, since i told him this, he's been acting quite distant around me and only properly talking to me through instant message or text :S. My friends think that he's playing hard to get but i'm not convinced; it feels like he's trying to push me away! What should i do/think?! Is he a hopeless case? Am i wasting me time??please reply xx
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reader, khea  +, writes (16 December 2009):
I understand how you feel, sometimes people do have good reasons why they just have to make decision that could lead to misunderstanding. Maybe his tying to figure out somethings, it could be what will be best for you or what would be the best for him, You don't have to think he's trying to push you away, just think he's making sure that he's feelings for you were right. You are not actually wasting your time because i believe that being brave enough to share feelings with somebody is never a hindrance to also attain what happiness especially if taking sometime is worth your waiting.
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