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writes:Why does one go back to an ex?Even after an affair that lead into a divorce on her part..I have been recently divorced since June 9th.Now I see myself back with her sexually and emotionally it's been about 1 year since I was with her last..I'm in state of confusion.Don't know if I should trust her or what.But I am happy when I am with her since we do have 2 dauthers together and 10 years of history...One last thing she is recently remarried and going thru a divorce again from the person who the whole affair started from..Totally confused...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): A broken heart takes time to heal, and trust again. It's all in your court really. If you want to give yourself more time rather than jump back into a relationship with her, then you should. Whatever you decide, she needs to know this betrayal hurt you and the girls deeply, and you're not willing to ever go through this again. Take Care, and I'll say a prayer for you today...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answer to my question..A lot of issues are in my mind one is the trust and honesty.Thru the whole divorce and separation we were on and off seeing each other but I unfortunatley would get played,This time around she claims its way different and regrets in her own words that she made a big mistake divorcing me.I don't know if I should believe her again.I feel in someway that I am nothing but a rebound for her.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): She's realizing the grass was not greener, but browner on the other side.A marriage based on a affair is a marriage beginning in distrust. Now that the honeymoon is over, she sees him for who he really is; a man lacking integrity for pursuing another mans wife...and I get the feeling she's VERY sorry for leaving you.But be cautious, maybe start 'dating' again and smoothing out issues and/or getting to the bottom of why it happened.
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