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female
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anonymous
writes: Ok I need help. So I signed up for this dating site as a joke but one guy messaged me and i thought... why not, hes cute... seems sweet so why not give it a shot. We met up and we seemed to hit it off... he asked me out for a second date which we went on on saturday. I haven't gotten a text from him since and its now wednesday... do you think he's decided hes not interested in me? Or do you think hes waiting for me to initiate another meet up? At this point I'd feel foolish texting him if he really were uninterested... but i don't know... he is a little reserved and shy. I just don't know what the problem is.... how long should i wait until i should just call it quits? What do you think the deal is?
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reader, Orbiter +, writes (21 July 2011):
Well if you really like this guy sending one text asking how he is and if he wants to meet up or something along those lines should be ok. He's not going to think you're desperate or stalking him from just one text. See how he replys to it, if he doesn't or he puts off/doesn't mention meeting up then he's probably not interested so move on, it's not a big deal. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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