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writes: hi. i need advice i have this guy..i love him so much, i would think too that he did it the same..later this days i was ignored, he seldom do texting and calling me now unlike before he usually does, im really upset everytime i was ignored im thinking it as if he doesnt love me anymore, i send him messages why he does these things for me, why he ignored me, why he dont send me anymore messages and even call me as often as he does when he still courting me...im so upset, annoyed and everything..last night i brought all my feelings to him, i said he just used me, he just played me, that he betrayed me, he only replied once..that it wasnt true...no more message,,this morning i waited for a message and call but untill now i havent received any one. please help is he mad at me? very much?, does he still love me. please i need advice, im not feeling well at the moment, i wanted to call him or text him but im hesitant..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): Be a strong woman! Please do not get in touch with him anymore, if he doesnt get in touch with your, sorry, but that is tough! Give him a week, if still no word then take it that it is over. You deserve better and you should have it. Dont be treat like this and accept it. If he does text you then it is up to you if you want to reply. Personally i would tell him to get stuffed.
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reader, agony jess  +, writes (25 October 2007):
well to be honest menare very strange living things i just been in a relationship where i was getting along great then the next day he just ended it he said he needed space maybe you shouldnt worry too much about it maybe he is going tthrough a phase just ask yourself have you done anything to make him mad at you. and because your used to him texting every five minutes your just expecting too much off him you dont want him to be clingy.Just leave him to do his thing and wait for him to ask you to go out or if he texts you first and hopefully things will go like they were before cos thats what happend for me jess x
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (25 October 2007):
 hi.
Before you get any angrier than you are now, you should if possible see him face to face and ask him why he has not responded to you, it is no good guessing what the problem is, until you find out the reasons why he is doing this to you.
If he will not give you a straight answer, then i am afraid he may be using you, but you cannot know that until you have discussed this with him.
If he is using you then you would be better of looking for a person who will not do this to you, it is not fair on you, going through this state of uncertainty and upset.
hope this will help.
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