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Is he just trying to be friendly or does he like me MORE than a friend?

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Question - (9 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

a month ago i met a really handsome guy. we don't go to the same school, but we have some extra classes together and we see each other only once a week. in our group, besides us, there is one more girl younger than us by one year. i got along very well with her until he appeared. since he came in our group she became very quiet, doesn't speak with him at all and sometimes gives him dirty looks, but he doesn't know that. she even told me she liked it better when it was only me and her, without him. because of this i wasn't able to talk with him at all until today. from what i heard he is pretty outgoing, but he usually acts pretty shy when around us. i also heard he might be single.

During our classes he always stares at me and checks me out. he knows well our names, but when our teacher calls the others girls name he stares at me again. whenever he says something funny, he looks at me like he wants to see my reaction. i always acted like i didn't notice him staring but once while i was reading i looked up at him. he was staring at me and looked very deep in my eyes and he seemed lost in thoughts. he kept staring, even though i saw him. i blushed.

Today when we had classes the other girl couldn't come so it was only me and him. I asked him a few things and than he started talking and asking me questions, usually related to our school lives. after class we went home together because we headed almost in the same direction. he was very polite. he opened the door for me, always waited for me, etc. many of his guyfriends are jerks. outside was dark and while we were walking i tripped a little and he suddenly turned towards me and held out his hand like he wanted to help me but i obviously didn't need help.

Anyway i'm happy we started getting closer because i and the other girl never talked with him and maybe he felt bad but i wonder... is he just being friendly? Is he trying to become just friends or more than that?someone told me he could like me, considering the fact that we recently met, i dunno what to say. what do you think? please answer!

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A male reader, burningredphoen United States +, writes (11 December 2009):

burningredphoen agony auntI'm a guy and I can tell you 100% that he likes you..that's kind of how I acted around my gf....you need to work on him as shy guys don't open up too easy...make him more comfortable around you and he'll be yours....he seems to act the way I did lol...and if that's so then ya he for sure wants you....

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