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writes:I met a really nice guy few days ago. He says I can come over anytime I like. I have been to his place about 3 times now. We aren't exactly dating but I guess you can say we act like a couple. When we sit he sits more towards my way, we have given little kisses when I leave, he hugs me tight, and we have even held hands while walking to my car. This third time I was at his place we up hooking up. No awkward moment afterwards. We kept kissing and hugging. We walked hand in hand to my car...I usually leave his place around 2am. I was afraid we would hook up then he would not talk to me again. But that was not the case. We text and we talk on AIM, and he still calls me sweetie. I dunno if hes trying to take things slow, or hes not looking for a relationship. He knows I just got out of a relationship not to long ago. We were talking last night and he asked me if it would hurt me if he dated around...wow that caught me off guard...I told him I can't stop him and I told him it would hurt me cause we have done stuff and he understood that. He said that my mind is different from his. Assuming I was not into him. But I don't just do things with people I do not like. I asked him if he was interested in me and he said "yes you are a good person." So he has already expressed that he is interested and I told him I was interested. So I'm guessing he's taking things slow...I really don't know what to think. What do you think??
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (20 November 2008):
 If he asked you if you minded if he "dated around" then he definitely doesn't want an exclusive relationship with you. The best way to find out for sure is to lay it on the line with him and let him know you really like him and would love to date him exclusively. Then it's up to him to decide if that's the road he wants to go down.
~Eve~
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